Are “Marriage Seed Oils” Sneaking In?

I ditched seed oils today.

Why?

They’re bad for us and sneak in pretending to be healthy.

Sound familiar?

Your marriage might have sneaky habits too.

You get home, spent from a long day, expecting the usual happy welcome. Instead, you’re met with silence or a sigh. It’s as chilly as a freezer.

This morning, I tossed sunflower and rapeseed oils from my kitchen. Felt like a wake-up call.

These oils are like the habits that sneak in and wreck your marriage. Stuff you didn’t notice till now:

• Ignoring her when she’s trying to share about her day.

• Brushing off quiet weekends as “just busy.”

• Letting date nights disappear into routines.

They don’t seem like a big deal at first, but over time?

• Conversations turn into one-word answers.

• Trust erodes, replaced by frustration and quiet resentment.

• Emotional distance grows until it feels like you’re living with a stranger.

But here’s the thing:

When you spot what’s poisoning your marriage—those unnoticed habits—you can toss them out. And when you do? Everything shifts.

• She feels heard, not dismissed.

• Connection builds, replacing the silence with warmth.

• You stop walking on eggshells and start feeling like a team again.

One client said, “The little things I ignored were wrecking us. Once I saw it and started shifting, she noticed. We’re laughing together again—feels like the couple we used to be.”

Feeling stuck? You’re not alone.

Let’s tackle these habits together, one step at a time. See how others have ditched what wasn’t working and rebuilt the connection they thought was gone.

Cheers to a fresh start in 2025!
Klaudia

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