Are you her husband or just her housemate?

Most men don’t wake up one morning and suddenly feel invisible.
It creeps in slowly.

At first, it’s small:
She doesn’t ask about your day.
She doesn’t laugh at your jokes.
Dinner feels like scrolling on two separate phones.

So you brush it off “She’s just busy.”

But then it hits you:
The more you try to spark her attention with jokes, plans, or conversation, the more she drifts into her own world

She doesn’t see you as a man to lean on anymore.
She sees you as background noise.

Miss this and:
– You start to doubt your own worth at home.
– She invests more of her energy in work, kids, or friends.
– The marriage loses oxygen until it’s just logistics: bills, chores, schedules.

Stay stuck here, and you’ll feel the slow fade:
She stops dressing up when you’re around.
She stops asking where you are.
She stops noticing altogether.

Until one day, she’s not ignoring you out of frustration, she’s ignoring you because she doesn’t even register you anymore.

And nothing cuts deeper than being forgotten by the person who once couldn’t take her eyes off you.

Klaudia

P.S. If you’re tired of living like a roommate in your own marriage, reply “VISIBLE.” I’ll send you the details.